Comments on: November 7 http://www.panix.com/~mara/diary/?p=164 in health and in sickness Tue, 27 Mar 2012 18:51:30 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: FJ!! http://www.panix.com/~mara/diary/?p=164#comment-30 FJ!! Fri, 11 Nov 2011 22:30:47 +0000 http://www.panix.com/~mara/wordpress/?p=164#comment-30 Wow, my industry was actually understanding and reasonable about something! I am half surprised they didn't threaten to try to recover the Early Termination Fee somehow. Much strength to you in the coming months. Wow, my industry was actually understanding and reasonable about something! I am half surprised they didn’t threaten to try to recover the Early Termination Fee somehow.

Much strength to you in the coming months.

]]> By: Arlene http://www.panix.com/~mara/diary/?p=164#comment-17 Arlene Tue, 08 Nov 2011 01:08:14 +0000 http://www.panix.com/~mara/wordpress/?p=164#comment-17 You do whatever you think is best and all who love, respect, admire and are inspired by you will deal with it! You do whatever you think is best and all who love, respect, admire and are inspired by you will deal with it!

]]> By: Michael Weholt http://www.panix.com/~mara/diary/?p=164#comment-16 Michael Weholt Mon, 07 Nov 2011 23:03:17 +0000 http://www.panix.com/~mara/wordpress/?p=164#comment-16 I understand and completely sympathize with the feeling of dread you have re: the grapevine, etc. The sort of thing (I suspect) you are dreading can be kept in control, though. You do have a right to your space, and even though people (with the best of intentions) may try to invade it, most do get you deserve and need your private space, I think. Some people you have to be tough with, but most will get it. That's been my experience, anyway. I guess my point is... dread causes stress, so any way you can lessen or eliminate it, at least in this area, is probably to the good. Letting go of the news could lead to letting go of some of the dread. Just be firm with people you need to be firm with. They'll get it. FWIW. I understand and completely sympathize with the feeling of dread you have re: the grapevine, etc. The sort of thing (I suspect) you are dreading can be kept in control, though. You do have a right to your space, and even though people (with the best of intentions) may try to invade it, most do get you deserve and need your private space, I think. Some people you have to be tough with, but most will get it. That’s been my experience, anyway. I guess my point is… dread causes stress, so any way you can lessen or eliminate it, at least in this area, is probably to the good. Letting go of the news could lead to letting go of some of the dread. Just be firm with people you need to be firm with. They’ll get it. FWIW.

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